How to avoid aggression.
21 rules to avoid street assaults or win them.
If you don’t want to have a bad experience, you have to read this and the 20 rules plus 1 to avoid street assaults or win them.
When it comes to self-defense prevention and security,context analysis, etc. are essential to avoid being in unpleasant situations.
He considers physical confrontation and his training is an aspect of self-defense.
21 rules to avoid street assaults or win them:
1 – Don’t get distracted if you’re in public.
Your inexperience, non-awareness, ignorance related to self-defense, distractions caused by too much security, the need for attention or simply a lack of awareness of the reality of the road make you completely lose the warning signs that the instinctive animal with which you were born.
This instinct helps you perceive the dangers and avoid them.
Consider that the comforts of modern life kill every sense of survival that must be found at all times especially in dangerous cities and violent neighborhoods.
If you’re in a room you don’t know, try to locate the exit, look who you’re around and stay in a position that you see who’s approaching.
If you have self-defense tools, keep them handy.
It is very common since we are in a civilized era and not in a “wild” place to give in the premises immediately confidence to strangers without spending much time and to live an adventure with anxiety that does not repeat this occasion but not considering the dangers from the circumstances.
Start drinking with strangers at a party to follow the meeting on the street and immediately tell about your intimacy, or where you live, work, etc., but this also to people we have known for longer but who have never hinted and find out who they really are, what they do, where they live, etc. you should never trust these people you know or even worse that you don’t know well even if they seem very helpful and sociable to you.
You have to do this without it becoming an obsession and the fear of aggression is always lurking while you’re out and about, but with a little training you can easily identify when someone moves outside the box,or you notice a certain way of looking at you or your group of friends.
This attention if developed can become a healthy habit that will save your life one day.
If you see something strange or that doesn’t convince you don’t think too much, change your ways, walk into a store, take an extra ride before going home to see that you’re not followed, but never isolate yourself.
4 – Avoid places and people who pose a potential danger
One of the healthy rules is to get away from friends or problematic acquaintances, so you don’t want to be in constant danger, in places like bars or humble neighborhoods with people of low human quality or places where you know there is a danger of aggression or violence.
Often your pride/ego drives you to want to stay in these places as a demonstration of courage but courage you must not confuse it with stupidity.
It’s stupid to be in places all the time that lead you to potentially be a victim of aggression because locals perceive it that you are not part of that world and consequently become a potential victim.
5 – Never show fear and fear
If at some point you just have to face aggression but remember that your attitude is your best weapon, if you show that you are afraid from the beginning you are giving a clear message that you are a sheep among wolves, humans like animals have the instinctive hunter as lions and wolves.
When they feel that they are facing a victim/prey they simply attack and eat, if you present yourself as a victim showing fear then you are eaten without doubt.
6 – Visual body language (non-verbal)
Always keep eye contact, never give your back or look down, it’s the first thing that triggers the instinct of animals.
The non-verbal language of your body is what matters.
There would also be the smell but characteristic we lost it, animals perceive fear even through the smell.
Especially the way you look down, the remiss gestures, or smiling for no reason when someone stares at you means you’re showing fear immediately.
If your attacker looks to his right he is going to attack, if he looks to the left he is hesitating, careful, if they are left-handed it is the opposite.
Everyone tends to look from the side where they feel strongest before attacking, then a right right and a left-hander on the left,
Keep direct eye contact with the attacker because you’re telling him you’re not afraid, which immediately casts doubt on his ability to submit.
But you really never stand face to face like a tamarro, I already explained this to you in another article.
7 – Stay away from your attacker or strike immediately without thinking
NEVER MAKE YOUR attacker approach near you, must stand beyond the combat distance , thedistance over one meter.
If two people are confronted and get to argue very close shouting both indicates that they are both afraid to start lied to each other.
An experienced fighter never and I repeat you never let yourself get close to a distance that can be hit, keep an adequate distance where you can easily dodge a physical attack, a meter is a standard distance, although much depends on the size of each person.
You’re at least a metre and a half, and less than a metre away, you hit without thinking.
Always display on the phrase referring to the leaders that says “cut off the head and the body will fall”.
This is a very common phrase among men of power, and after years of experience I tell you that it is absolutely certain, when the head of any society is missing everything begins to collapse, the cliques or gangs behind the leader for the attack are just cowards who need to be protected.
Given that premise know that everyone is afraid in the world, even more so when groups go together and regularly or always that depend on a leader who is the one who gives them value or is scary.
If you stop the leader the others will withdraw immediately because they lose their reference and have no one who makes them feel invincible, seeing their leader fall they will be distrusted, afraid and will be easy prey.
But I don’t want to deceive you because if it’s a leader it also has skills, so it’s not easy but it’s the only chance you have.
9 – If the attack is imminent, strike first and accurately
If you are accompanied by someone you need to protect or if there are several and you realize that the aggression is real through words or movements and are in front of you, locate the strongest if it is not alone, the pack leader, or preferably the strongest and attacks mercilessly because if you land he will decrease the safety of others.
Don’t wait, those who wait always end up beaten or killed.
10 – For whatever reason, never try to fight by going ashore, much less to get back on the ground if you finish there.
On this I am biased because I am a jiu Jitsu fanatic but I am aware of the changes that are necessary for use in a non-sporting context where there are no rules.
Now with the explosion of Jiu Jitsu’s two-decade-old publicity have sprung up generations of thought where it is the “most effective” system on the street and assumed that the fight must be on the ground.
It’s not like that.
To use the Brazilian Jiu Jitsu on the ground you have to make a lot of changes but the advantage of ground fighting like the BJJ is in the type of training that is often done in a non-cooperating context and therefore the techniques you learn you can really apply them.
The fight is then a true equalizer in the fight.
Unfortunately it often happens after the first brawl that you have to be functional to the context, if you are competing or a fight with rules the fight is excellent and also has m a certain effectiveness in the street, but you have to be aware that you have to adapt it.
So consider that it shouldn’t be a rule to use the fight in a street fight but you have to use it when necessary because there are no rules that prevent you from putting your fingers in your eyes or biting, taking your fingers or pulling a knife out of your pocket while you’re warning.
Then consider the possibility that there are several attackers so it is not enough a system of fighting man together of knowledge standing and on the ground but the fight is fundamental because it is easy that you end up on the ground and you need to know what to do.
The road has no honor and if you want to save your skin you have to be functional and know how to adapt to situations certain that if you are a Black Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jutsu against one who has no fighting experience you do not need many seconds to knock him out.
11 – His main weapons are your attitude and your look
Your hands, body position, tranquility, tone of voice and your hand speed is what saves your life, learning to kick or fight are also great advantages and skills, but you can’t avoid developing the ability to strike with your hands.
The 99 of the fights start and end with shots, so you have to learn how to use your hands well.
12 – Never allow you to get surrounded and take your back
You in a fight against different attackers you have to always stand in front, if they start to put themselves on your side easily you will find them behind you and so you will be attacked behind and from the front.
You always have to keep your attackers in line and for this you have to move a lot, you have to do training training to train your endurance and athletic ability and exercises at the beginning with two training partners, then with three, and then with 4.
You will find that even for them if they don’t have a strategy it will be difficult.
Remember that eye contact is critical to your attack and defensive action and if you can’t see you can’t defend yourself.
It’s not like in the movies you see behind you and there are no magic formulas that deceive you by making you believe you can fight blindfolded, try to be realistic and learn to put yourself in the position where you can defend yourself or find a passage to make an escape.
If you can run, or put yourself on the roof of a car, in a higher position.
13 – Never try to show off, you must be right, direct and effective
The most common reaction when you’re young and stupid is to try to prove how macho you are, foolishly exposing yourself to dangers that can’t be solved, accepting challenges with unknown or physically stronger people than you, not doing this shit.
You know that ridiculous figure with your girlfriend or friend or friends that will cause you painful losses and the embarrassment of being ridiculed leaving a scar on the soul that can never be erased, do not export to want to show you off or prove something you are not. Just act right.
Also to do so we say “the tamarro” you have to be really aware of your abilities, because of your trust against an expert or a street beater do you know where you can put it? Do I have to explain it to you?.
To have this awareness you need to know what to do and have done many but many non-cooperative sparring sessions to understand the dynamics of a fight and despite this is not enough because the road has dynamics and unpredictability that there are not in a context with rules/protections/arbiter.
Combat is chaos and you have to be able to move in chaos.
14 – Never argue, it’s a way to show you’re afraid
Like dogs, men always try to show more than they are, dogs bark aggressively because they are afraid, fear drives courage and being aggressive, like men who start swearing, shouting, only that if you know the dynamics this shows that they are afraid.
Don’t shout or raise your voice, much less speak threatening, if you’re going to say something speaks like a lion, loud and serious, not like a bird, with a high-pitched voice.
Instead of arguing you just have to look at where to hit, when aggression is imminent, don’t talk but act.
Don’t take it all literally and start attacking for no reason enough.
15 – If you are with someone ask them to move away from the danger zone
As a rule try to stop the fight is dangerous and can generate even more danger for you because it often happens that the person dear to you holds you.
Everyone among their friends has the dreamer who is against violence, as if with his good will can eliminate thugs on the loose and detainees in our country, but you need to make it clear to these people that in this world or city we live in if you do not want to be a sheep grazing with wolves turning you need to learn to defend yourself.
This dreamers cause more damage than you think during a street fight because you not only have to fight the opponent, but also against a friend or girlfriend who won’t let fight. In addition, they are exposed to danger.
Being “against violence” will not save you from being robbed, beaten or killed, the only thing that saves you is to learn to be vigilant and to defend yourself.
16 – As soon as you can get rid of the attacker
Once you manage emotionally or physically the clash with the aggressor looks for all ways to reduce his actions, do not let him recover or leave, if you can immediately get away from that place, it is better to stay away, stay there to watch or provoke with pride with demonstration of ego and insecurity, do not boast, just do what you had to do and stay away.
CORRI, RUN, VAI VIA!!!
17 – Once you’ve started beating up go to the end, don’t have compassion
In these cases, “Forgiveness loses.” Another street expression, however, is in this true context.
Now you don’t have to abuse if you’re superior to your attacker or infire but not even have too much mercy, because in addition to giving the chance to take back your attacker, it’s a sign of weakness and the pack around if it’s not alone or even strangers who can suddenly get in the way of eating you who see you weak because you haven’t finished or even hit your attacker half dying on the ground.
I know it’s weird behavior, but it happens.
How many times do you see two beating each other and suddenly putting in the middle of another that has nothing to do with it, these are ancestral reactions, instinctive reactions related to the herd, or reactions to the vision of violence.
Often these people do actions without courage, without pity, without anyone injured, but they take a shot to say that I was there too, putting themselves in the midst of something of which they are strangers.
There are a lot of videos of people who don’t have anything to do with the conflict but who approach maybe while the two are on the ground and kicking.
Your actions must be violent, go to the end, so no one will come close to doing cowardly action.
I know it sounds weird, but you have to do the job.
18 – Your reaction speed and surprise factor are your best response
The reaction speed and the surprise effect are always the most important life-saving element for this type of aggression.
You need to have your muscles trained and good reflexes, especially because if you can hit and run away, then train in the race because running can be your best weapon against violence and will save your life.
Martial arts and boxing or wrestling are fundamental to this but also other sports such as swimming and basketball, the sport in general that require coordination and rapid explosiveness and have endurance to run away.
Always use the surprise effect as your ally, both to strike and to escape.
One important thing if you can do that, study human behavior with a true master to learn what are the attitudes, words or actions that cause actions to stop actions, paralyzing you, and what are the signs of escalation of violence and how you can lower this situation by avoiding if you can clash.
19 – Your hands are the fastest and most effective weapons, proper training is needed to learn how to use them effectively
Here’s little to say, boxing is ideal, butit can also be fine the Muay Thai,the problem is to find a good teacher, since there is 90% of charlatans and 10% of real teachers/teachers who can give you training that works in a non-cooperative context.
Find out who will teach you and find out if he is honest and has studied training methods, it will be your best guarantee to be well trained and not waste your time.
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20 – Train seriously not to be a victim and prepare, but hope it never happens live
Don’t waste your time training on combat alone or watching movies and battle videos on YouTube.
You have to train under the guidance of a good teacher, better if you have economic possibilities.
Learning to defend yourself can be the best investment of your life, if you train with a “level” teacher learning to is something that is needed to save life but also to improve it.
WARNING!!! The only parts of the body where a shot is totally effective even if people are trained/trained are the primary targets, eyes, throat and genitals, consider first of all hitting primary targets.
21 – If you have a weapon use it!!!
It is a series of suggestions and my advice always remains to escape when possible because the purpose is to bring the skin home, whether you are right or wrong, or that you make a bad figure passing as a coward, only when you have no chance then attack with the utmost ferocity.
Self Defence is not a game!
Street Fight Mentality!